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A bunch of training "shorts" from T-Nation
Featuring Dave Tate
You only go around once, so you may as well make the best of your time here by living the life you really want to live.
"Well, Dave, I'd like to but..."
But what? Do what you gotta do!
There are many people out there who live "but lives," "I shoulda lives," and "I coulda lives."
These people are easy to find. They're the ones we call critics: those who've become masters of the "have not" and love to spend their time telling us what we can and can't do.
They make up 90% of the people I've met. Avoid them! They love to pull you down.
If you happen to be one, then fix it fast because it'll affect your training and your life.
Crush Your Demons
By Dave Tate
I've been through my share of shit, but 2010 was probably the worst year yet. That year I lost my father. It was a terrible process that started with him suffering a stroke and being rushed to the hospital. While admitted, the doctors found he also had cancer. My dad was eventually released and bounced back and forth between long-term care facilities and the hospital before eventually passing away a few months later.
Not long after my dad died, my wife suffered a pulmonary embolism and was also rushed to the hospital. Seconds away from dying, the doctors had to perform emergency open-heart surgery to save her.
Finally, on the business front, I had two monstrous legal issues that were coming to a head. So add legal wrangling and nonstop meetings on top of the normal day-to-day bullshit every business owner has to deal with and I was at my limit for stress.
To combat this, I tried to do what I always did when life got stressful I trained.
Normal types might scoff at the notion of hitting the gym with so much shit going on, but they aren't seeing the big picture or at least my big picture. I don't punish myself with drop-sets and high-rep squats to build muscle. I do it to kill my demons.
We all have demons inside of us. Some have more than others, and some guys can deal with them better than the next. That 40-something stressed-out businessman who suddenly snaps and bludgeons the Walmart greeter with a plunger is an example of someone who can't handle his demons.
I'm not saying I'm always inches away from committing manslaughter, but I can be a real dick when I let stress get the better of me.
So I smash my demons. I crush them under PR's. And if I'm too fucked up to train heavy, I torch them with extended sets, rip them apart with rest pauses and drop sets, and then chase them away with whatever fucked up finishing exercise I can think of.
The demons always come back, mind you, but as long as I have a key to my gym I can stay one step ahead. DT
Set Your Goals High and Keep 'em to Yourself
By Dave Tate
When setting goals, keep your goal specific to yourself and a select few, and general to all others.
In other words, if your goal is to bench 400 pounds, keep that as a marker in your mind, but if others ask just tell them, "I'm training for a bigger bench," or "I'm working toward a new PR."
Your goal may be to get your body fat down to 6%, but all the masses need to know is, "I'm dieting right now."
The reason for this is simple: 90% of everyone you meet are negative pricks who will go out of their way to tell you why you can'tdo something. Once they know your goal, they'll try and tear you down. Just keep it vague, and all they can do is wish you success.
Of course, they may still try and tear you down once you've actually accomplished your goal, but who cares. You've done the work and have the results to show for it. THEY couldn't have done it. So fuck 'em.
I do feel it's important to still put the goal out there to make you accountable, but I'd only tell those who know you can do it and will hold you accountable.
Take a good look at the people around you, and consider yourself lucky if you know even a small handful of people like this. But all you really need is one: you. Dave Tate
7 Tips From Dave Tate
1. When you bench, try to push your body away from the bar, not the bar away from you.
2. When aiming for a bigger bench press, try "pulling the bar apart" as you press.
3. Keep your head back when you squat. There's no need to look for the great power gods in the sky. Just make sure your head is up and driven back into the bar. This will help keep the chest up.
4. If you don't know your foot position for a conventional deadlift and need a place to start from, try hanging from a chin bar and simply drop to the floor. Normally, where your feet land is your best pulling stance.
5. If you're trying to develop a stronger squat and deadlift, train your abs standing up.
6. If you can't flex it then DON'T ISOLATE IT. You need to have control of your body if you're going to do isolation movements.
If I asked you to flex your pecs, it'd probably be easy. You can make those boobies bounce with pride. Now what if I asked you to do the same with your triceps, delts, hamstrings, or lats? If you can't, why in the hell are you doing tight isolation bodybuilding cable work? Hmm... never thought of that one, did you? Stick with the presses and rows and build muscle first. You can't flex bone.
7. When benching, think of pushing through, pushing past the lock out.
-- Dave Tate
Featuring Dave Tate
When I was a kid, the gym was the place I could go to get away from feeling like I was worthless and a failure. I could be in charge and decide whether I succeeded.
It was my place to build and grow, mentally and physically. Much like other young kids who come from similar situations, I built walls around me. My walls were built of cast iron and steel.
It was also something I was good at. And as I grew and got bigger and stronger, the abuse went away very fast. I went from the kid that got "fucked with" to the kid you "don't want to fuck with."
And I still see training that way today. The reason for this and the strong guys reading will be able to relate is there's something that happens during those very intense sets.
It doesn't matter if it's a PR set, a Max Effort set, a strip set, or a high-rep set, as long as it's one that you know going in will be a challenge.
You know you need to find a way to up your game, step out of yourself, focus, and see what you're really made of.
Because once the bar is loaded and your set comes around, you find this place that I really can't explain. From the time you approach the bar to the time the set is over, there's nothing.
The fight you had with your girlfriend that day? Gone. Your finals? Gone. Your work issues? Gone. Your bills? Gone. The asshole across the gym? Gone. The bullies? Gone. The hurt? Gone.
The mental pain is now replaced with physical pain, but this is pain that you crave, because the load you've been carrying all your life in now resting on your back and you have the power to smash it.
I call this 'nothing' The Void, but it isn't really nothing it's everything.
When I look back over 30 years of training, my big take away is that training is my therapy. This is why I do what I do, both the positives and even the stupid shit. This is why I'm so passionate about passing on what I know.
The Void is the only time that I am truly free free from the bullshit that other people and life has thrown at me. It's all gone, just me and the weight. And that's where I find my peace.
The Void has changed my life. Maybe it could change yours?
- Dave Tate
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